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Exodus 2 – Feeling Like You Don’t Belong
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Exodus 2 – Feeling Like You Don’t Belong

Sometime you can just tell when something’s not right. You can just tell when you don’t belong where you are. Whether it’s a discontent or a difficulty fitting in, there’s a dissonance in your spirit. You just know it. This was the case…

September 19, 20172 min read
Exodus 1 – No Such Thing As A Small Part to Play
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Exodus 1 – No Such Thing As A Small Part to Play

Ever feel insignificant? Ever feel like you’re just a common, everyday person with no chance of making a major impact on the world? In the book of Exodus, we have: A book containing the mightiest miracles God has ever done, aside from the…

September 19, 20172 min read
This is Not What I Expected
Marriage

This is Not What I Expected

Expectations. We all have expectations before we get married. We have expectations about what marriage will be like. We have expectations about how our spouse will act. We have expectations that tend to become the standard by which we…

September 7, 20175 min read
Genesis 50 – A Happy Ending to a Long Journey
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Genesis 50 – A Happy Ending to a Long Journey

Genesis chapter 50 is the close of a long journey for Joseph and his brothers. By the time Joseph’s brothers find him in Egypt, they have come a long way, not just geographically, but emotionally and spiritually also. Joseph’s brothers…

September 6, 20172 min read
Genesis 48-49 – He knows us
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Genesis 48-49 – He knows us

In Genesis chapters 48-49, Jacob is nearing the end of his life and he gives a series of blessings/predictions about each of his children. Though some of these blessings and predictions may seem a little vague to us, I’m sure they made…

August 31, 20172 min read
What A Two-Year Old Taught Me About Listening
Marriage

What A Two-Year Old Taught Me About Listening

I’ve been spending a lot of time with my two-year old granddaughter, and boy does this little girl loves to talk! She starts when she wakes up and doesn’t stop until she’s asleep. This morning, as I was taking her to school (Mothers Day…

August 31, 20175 min read
Genesis 47 – Moving to Goshen
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Genesis 47 – Moving to Goshen

In Genesis chapter 47, Jacob and his family move to the land of Goshen. It shows the distinction given to Jacob and his family. While all around them experienced famine, they experienced favor. While all around them had struggles, they had…

August 22, 20172 min read
Genesis 46 – The Power of Three Words
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Genesis 46 – The Power of Three Words

In Genesis chapter 46, the story of Joseph and his brothers starts moving toward a happy ending. Joseph, the second most powerful man in Egypt, has finally revealed himself to his brothers; the very brothers who hated him and sold him into…

August 22, 20172 min read
Genesis 45 – The Long and Winding Road
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Genesis 45 – The Long and Winding Road

In Genesis chapter 45, we come to the end of a long and winding road. After all the years Joseph spent in slavery and in prison…after all those years his brothers ignored and forgot what they had done to him…after all those years his…

August 14, 20172 min read
It’s Not How I Pictured it.
Marriage

It’s Not How I Pictured it.

Many years ago, I was in Paris as part of a mission trip. While there, we had some free time and a group of us went to the Louvre. The Louvre houses some of the most famous art work in the world. Pieces like the Venus de Milo and and the…

August 3, 20175 min read
Genesis 43-44 – A Change of Heart
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Genesis 43-44 – A Change of Heart

In Genesis chapters 43-44, Joseph’s brothers still don’t recognize him, and Joseph continues to test them to see if they have changed. His brothers eventually come back to Egypt for more food, and this time they bring their younger brother…

July 25, 20172 min read
When You’re Not Getting What You Want in Marriage
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When You’re Not Getting What You Want in Marriage

As a pastoral counselor, I’m expected to draw on Scripture and good clinical practices in order to help couples improve their marriage. But the truth is, you can find great nuggets of marital wisdom in a variety of places. The other day, I…

July 23, 20174 min read
Genesis 42 – Busted!
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Genesis 42 – Busted!

In Genesis chapter 42, There’s a great famine throughout the land. Joseph had wisely stored up food for just such a time, and Pharaoh puts him in charge of food distribution. So, when Joseph’s brothers come to Egypt to buy food, they come…

July 17, 20172 min read
Genesis 41 – A Surprise Ending
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Genesis 41 – A Surprise Ending

Up to this point, Joseph has been wrongly treated and often forgotten. But by the end of Genesis chapter 41, there’s a surprise ending. Pharaoh frees Joseph from prison and makes him the second in command of Egypt. The father’s favorite…

July 17, 20172 min read
Encourage!
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Encourage!

In my last post, Why So Serious, I talked about taking part in a funeral for a lady in our church. She had lived to be ninety-three and was married to the same man for seventy-two years. A mere two weeks after her funeral, we were holding…

July 15, 20174 min read
Why So Serious?
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Why So Serious?

I recently took part in a funeral for a lady in our church who died at the age of ninety-three. Living to the age of ninety-three is remarkable in and of itself, but what was even more remarkable was that she and her husband (who is…

July 5, 20174 min read
Selective Memory in Marriage
Marriage

Selective Memory in Marriage

Wife: “Don’t forget we’re going to my parents this weekend to help them with that project.” Husband: “What project?” Wife: “Remember, they’re redoing their living room, and we have to help them move all the furniture and repaint.” Husband:…

June 29, 20174 min read
Genesis 40 – Look Beyond the Difficulty
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Genesis 40 – Look Beyond the Difficulty

It frustrates me when I see good and godly people try to do the right thing and suffer unfairly and unjustly for it. It’s hard to watch this happen without somehow doubting the fairness and justice of God. In Genesis chapter 40, you find…

June 26, 20172 min read
Genesis 39 – Life’s Ups and Downs
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Genesis 39 – Life’s Ups and Downs

Everyone experiences ups and downs in life. You can’t avoid it. The key is staying consistent despite the ups and downs. Joseph is one of two people in Scripture that lived an exemplary life consistently, despite the ups and downs he…

June 26, 20172 min read
Is Your Marriage Boring or Confidently Comfortable?
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Is Your Marriage Boring or Confidently Comfortable?

My wife and I recently returned home from a five day trip to Washington D.C. Actually, if you include a day to drive there and a day to drive back, it was more like a three day trip to D.C. After three days of walking over 13 miles to see…

June 15, 20174 min read
How Did You Get Here?
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How Did You Get Here?

I woke up in a different bedroom beside a young female I wasn’t use to waking up with. As I looked at her all tangled up in the covers, I asked myself, “How did I get here?” But I realize I’ve brought you into the middle of the story, so…

June 1, 20175 min read
Glory Days
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Glory Days

Glory days are defined as “times in the past that are regarded as being better than the present.” Glory days can be that winning pass of the high school championship, that time we were big on campus and had the hot date, or that carefree…

May 22, 20174 min read
Genesis 38 – Obligations
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Genesis 38 – Obligations

In Genesis chapter 38, Judah’s oldest son (Er) marries a girl named Tamar. But Er is considered by God to be wicked, and he dies before he and Tamar have a child. In their culture, Tamar is to conceive a child with the next oldest son,…

May 10, 20172 min read
Bull Riding and Marriage
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Bull Riding and Marriage

I often tell people that marriage can be like a bull ride. Here’s what I mean by that… In the beginning, when the bull rider gets on the bull, they look good, feel confident, and are surrounded by a lot of supporters. Those supporters…

May 4, 20174 min read